Saturday, January 30, 2010
Released from Hopkins
Yeah and yippee. That is the feeling that slowly took over. It was not an instant cheerleading yeah in the office. More something that crept in as we got in the road and fully hit as we set down to eat at the cheesecake factory. Our first meal out at a restaurant in what felt like forever. Assuming no utis we will need to get a kidney sonogram in 2 years. The specialist said our doc might go with 1 year which is fine. Woo-hoo.
The day did not start with that giddy sense of joy. In fact, i was super wound up. I brought a scarf i am making for kevin with me to knit. I knitted practically the entire drive and large amounts of time during testing. That coping mechanism can still kick in when needed. In fact i was so spun i almost wanted to insist that they sedate Tabytha. Yep hello miss minimal medicator almost asked for drugs. Kevin held the line and we were able to get shots obviously. I just could not handle the thought of waiting and another trip. Thankfully the staff if used to stressed out parents. Ron the nurse was wonderful. Very kind and caring.
Of course that joy got dinged a bit by an acting out teen. When you have multiple children the good news from one can turn instantly into a challenge from the other. Something i am not super used to. It feels someday like the whole parenting thing is completely new to me. I wonder how that feel if we do it again and i have 2 children under 5 at the same time. Oddly i am really looking forward to that change. Like can't wait to do it. If i make it to july without actively trying it will surprise me a bit. I am ready to take the hold button off and get things moving along. But i need to be smart about it and don't need another stressful pregnancy.
i do know that it is not entirely avoidable, but well i can try to minimize with simple things like waiting at least a year. At this point i can say i will not wait two to even start trying.
But for now i am enjoying the family God has given me so far.